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Post by Robert Lotti on Jul 28, 2016 23:20:25 GMT -5
Since "someone" ended their friendship with me earlier this year, I haven't felt the same at NYWC shows. Don't get me wrong NYWC-ites, it still has great shows. I have not gone to afterparties at Twisted Shamrock since I don't have a lady to dance with and they haven't had karaoke there since Psycho Circus XIV. I have seemingly gone back to how I was when I saw NYYWC in it's early years. Meaning going to the shows, having fun, & going straight home after the shows end. There is a young lady that I've noticed at the shows for quite some time. I'd like to meet her yet I don't have the heart to do it since I'm not a conversational person and my biggest concern is not that she may already be with someone she loves. My biggest concern is that she may not want to meet me and might be rude and not give me the time of day. I don't have her on Facebook however I follow her on Twitter but I don't tweet anything to her. I really don't know what to do. Any suggestions folks?
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Post by unofficialartist on Aug 1, 2016 11:51:14 GMT -5
As "sean" would say,as a formerly shy person that he was,he'd say: you only get ONE LIFE to discover who & what you are & realize your potential! Which is the answer to the QUESTION that a lot of people don't give themselves enough of a CHANCE to ask themselves. If you give fear too much power you become your own worst enemy. If you wonder instead of taking a chance to know either way,you lose the right to complain. If you don't take action then another person WILL. Life gives everyone the basic elements but then it's UP TO US TO MAKE THE BEST OF WHATEVER WE'RE GIVEN. "Sean" would've had SO much regret if he didn't take action regarding that asian girl he "noticed" in college who became the LOVE OF HIS LIFE. If you need any more "incentive" take a walk through a cemetary sometime & ask yourself:"what regrets do they have about actions they DIDN'T take when they had the TIME/CHANCE to"?? On a related note,online dating sites work extra well for shy types so we recommend pof.com
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Post by Robert Lotti on Aug 9, 2016 21:09:54 GMT -5
Truth be told, I'm not a conversational guy. I've missed out on so much due to fear and doubt.
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Post by undertakerfan4life on Aug 11, 2016 9:27:45 GMT -5
If Rob doesn't think he's ready, then let him be. He's the only one that can do this.
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Post by Uninvited on Aug 14, 2016 20:46:45 GMT -5
As "sean" would say,as a formerly shy person that he was,he'd say: you only get ONE LIFE to discover who & what you are & realize your potential! Which is the answer to the QUESTION that a lot of people don't give themselves enough of a CHANCE to ask themselves. If you give fear too much power you become your own worst enemy. If you wonder instead of taking a chance to know either way,you lose the right to complain. If you don't take action then another person WILL. Life gives everyone the basic elements but then it's UP TO US TO MAKE THE BEST OF WHATEVER WE'RE GIVEN. "Sean" would've had SO much regret if he didn't take action regarding that asian girl he "noticed" in college who became the LOVE OF HIS LIFE. If you need any more "incentive" take a walk through a cemetary sometime & ask yourself:"what regrets do they have about actions they DIDN'T take when they had the TIME/CHANCE to"?? On a related note,online dating sites work extra well for shy types so we recommend pof.com That's good advice. Are you going to the next show yourself Unofficial Artist?
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Post by Roger on Aug 15, 2016 22:19:11 GMT -5
Why not go to the show yourself Artist and lend a hand?
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Post by unofficialartist on Aug 16, 2016 9:19:25 GMT -5
Because as Robert himself has said here & for most of his life:"I've missed out so much due to FEAR & DOUBT". So unless he makes the DECISION & takes the ACTION to change his life WON'T regardless of whatever help is offered.
Uninvited,that's a no because if you read my pro wresting threads i'm already plugging ROH/NJP this month.
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Post by Robert Lotti on Aug 16, 2016 12:05:12 GMT -5
If she isn't at the show, I can't take action.
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Post by Robert Lotti on Jan 13, 2017 0:32:49 GMT -5
Bump!
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Post by undertakerfan4life on Sept 5, 2017 19:06:41 GMT -5
Did you get to meet her Robert?
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Post by Robert Lotti on Feb 25, 2018 15:09:12 GMT -5
Because as Robert himself has said here & for most of his life:"I've missed out so much due to FEAR & DOUBT". So unless he makes the DECISION & takes the ACTION to change his life WON'T regardless of whatever help is offered. Uninvited,that's a no because if you read my pro wresting threads i'm already plugging ROH/NJP this month. She was there last night and I said forget it again. Planning ahead is one thing but when she is right there in the flesh it is a different ball game. Linkin Park put it best "I've Given Up".
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Post by longtimenywcfan on Sept 11, 2018 19:04:33 GMT -5
Don't give up Rob. Those two ladies at the shows you sit with are beautiful.
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Post by undertakerfan4life on May 5, 2019 18:57:19 GMT -5
Don't give up Rob. Those two ladies at the shows you sit with are beautiful. They sure are longtimenywcfan. I'd you are not ready to meet the one lady you are making reference to Robert, then don't bother.
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Post by Robert Lotti on Aug 4, 2019 13:01:21 GMT -5
Last night at Back To The Grove, she was sitting across the room from me. I backed down from walking over and meeting her.
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Post by Roger on Aug 5, 2019 21:19:44 GMT -5
Perhaps it is time to see what would happen Robert. I say if she shows up at Hotter Than Hell, either go introduce yourself to her or get off the pot(I am not referring to drugs).
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